Girls don't want nice guys!
Girls don't want bad boys!
Shocked? The truth is they want a bit of both.
The bad boy plays by his own rules. He doesn't ask for permission. He doesn't do things that he doesn't want to do. He calls a girl when it's convenient to him. He doesn't take crap from anyone. He makes the decisions.
The nice guy is respectful. He is interested in a girl for more than her looks. He will be chivalrous and honest when necessary.
So the good guy must have his own beliefs and morals that he nevers stray from but he accepts the views of others. He talks to girl and builds attraction before displaying it. To a girl, it seems she is earning his approval instead of the opposite. Once earned, he is caring and then sexual. He is honest about whether he wants something serious or a bit of fun.
It is a constantly flipping coin but it works.
Be good, treat women well and have wonderful relationships.
Sunday 29 November 2009
Sunday 22 November 2009
ELEVEN PICK UP EPIPHANIES
1. What you look like doesn't matter. But how you present yourself does.
2. Nobody is judging you. They're too busy worrying about what you think of them. So instead of seeking her approval, give her yours.Then take it away. Then give it to her again. This is called flirting.
3. Women do actually like nice guys. They just don't like weak guys. So you can still be nice. But you must also be confident--in yourself, your opinions, and your worthiness and value in the world. In order for a woman to be with you, she needs to feel safe with you.
4. It's not enough to just be yourself. You must be your best self.
5. There's a thin but important line between being horny and being sexual. A horny man hits on a woman before she's attracted to him. A sexual man waits until she's attracted to him.
6. Just because you're interacting doesn't mean you're attracting. Learn to recognize the difference between politeness and interest.
7. To win the heart of a woman, you often have to be willing to risk losing her.
8. When a girl who you went on a date with in the past and who suddenly disappeared on you calls out of the blue, it generally means one thing - so call back right away before she finds someone else to be with that night.
9. Always call a woman the day after sleeping with her and make her feel good about having let go with you--even if you don't want to see her again or she doesn't want to see you again. Don't ruin her for other guys.
10. Don't look to your friends or family for approval as you learn the game. They may like you just the way you are, but not always for the right reasons. With some "friends," this is because when you start looking better, feeling more confident, and succeeding more than they do, you often end up reminding them of their own inadequacies and lack of growth.
11. Finally, to quote the wisdom of Canadian hockey player Wayne Gretzky, "You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take." So simply by approaching a woman and saying something, no matter how badly you may bumble, you've dramatically increased your odds of being with her.
2. Nobody is judging you. They're too busy worrying about what you think of them. So instead of seeking her approval, give her yours.Then take it away. Then give it to her again. This is called flirting.
3. Women do actually like nice guys. They just don't like weak guys. So you can still be nice. But you must also be confident--in yourself, your opinions, and your worthiness and value in the world. In order for a woman to be with you, she needs to feel safe with you.
4. It's not enough to just be yourself. You must be your best self.
5. There's a thin but important line between being horny and being sexual. A horny man hits on a woman before she's attracted to him. A sexual man waits until she's attracted to him.
6. Just because you're interacting doesn't mean you're attracting. Learn to recognize the difference between politeness and interest.
7. To win the heart of a woman, you often have to be willing to risk losing her.
8. When a girl who you went on a date with in the past and who suddenly disappeared on you calls out of the blue, it generally means one thing - so call back right away before she finds someone else to be with that night.
9. Always call a woman the day after sleeping with her and make her feel good about having let go with you--even if you don't want to see her again or she doesn't want to see you again. Don't ruin her for other guys.
10. Don't look to your friends or family for approval as you learn the game. They may like you just the way you are, but not always for the right reasons. With some "friends," this is because when you start looking better, feeling more confident, and succeeding more than they do, you often end up reminding them of their own inadequacies and lack of growth.
11. Finally, to quote the wisdom of Canadian hockey player Wayne Gretzky, "You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take." So simply by approaching a woman and saying something, no matter how badly you may bumble, you've dramatically increased your odds of being with her.
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