Friday 30 May 2008

Facebook

We all get those randoms/unwanted people trying to add us on Facebook. Normally i ask someone why they want to add me, if the reason is good enough, they get added.

Today i got a request (and a poke) from my ex-girlfriends lil sister. Felt like a kind of "damned either way" scenario. My ex and her family don't really like me, so not adding her could be considered a kick to the face, whereas the fallout from adding her would have been just as deadly. Why would you even think of adding your ex's sister-unless the breakup was amicable of course.

Didnt help that the sister is a known troublemaker.

Thursday 29 May 2008

Thursday Musings

Why are we drawn to our own destruction? I play computer games at work, I drink and smoke, and I'm attracted to the wrong girls.

Ok, so I don't spend my whole day playing games, Ihave a healthy diet, exercise regularly and don't drink excessively, but it could be so much better.

Take my current "favourite," she is smart, beautiful and mysterious. I've IOI'd, SOI'd and got my share back. I've number closed, been invited out and i believe that attraction is there.

So why am i complaining? Well my gut tells me she is a destroyer of men, the kind of girl that guys settle down for, marry and all that. Currently i'm top of my game, always out chatting to this girl and that. I can't afford to lose my progress but some chances are too good to miss...fuck it, if this is to be my final battle charge, i'm making sure it's one to remember.

Love you guys!

Tuesday 20 May 2008

My personals ad

Ok, about two weeks ago i posted the following on Gumtree:

"Hey, looking to increase my friend circle but also get into a relationship. Moved here about 9 months ago with work, and go out every friday as a ritual with the boys ;)

I do all the standard stuff (read, watch movies, music etc) so i won't bore you with that.

I will talk your socks off, i love to hit bars on a night but don't really drink. I will make you blow milk through your nose, you will lose all capacity to breathe! And i like to befriend lonely dance floors :). My style is my own, i have no need for yours.

Sound good, let me know xxx"

The whole point was to see whether nice guys do finish last, there are no sexual connotations or lewd lines, just frank honesty. There is, however, a lot of bold statements.

So far I've had 4 responses, all unsurprisingly female and yet also all foreign. The best is a lovely girl called D who did email me daily until yesterday. I asked for her number, no reply...

wonder what went wrong, if anything?

"Join my pen club" - new game!

Ok, i'm PEN 14, if you want to join my club, please write, in big black permanent marker on your arm or forehead, PEN 15. That way i'll know your in my club. Anyone you recruit will be PEN 16 of course.

Happy hunting, and i hope to one day see lots of PEN15'es :) xxx

Sunday 11 May 2008

The Flair!

Hey all,
Welcome to my musings, my anecdotes, and my ravings..they're all really the same aren't they?

So why Flair? Well, I was once told that one of my strongest attributes is my voice. I know a little about a lot, and a lot about a little. I can talk to anyone, anywhere and at any time-as long as it's in English! So i have a flair for talking. I'm also an extrovert, so i guess i'm like a flare going off sometimes, that burst of light and energy. Thirdly, i love wearing flares, not those crazy bellbottoms or purple catsuits (other colours are fine), but the kind frequented in Topman. Love that shop!

But who am i? I'm a 27 yr old scientist, who works hard to play harder on those 2 days i have to myself. I wish i had more energy in the evenings, doesnt always work like that though!

Its been an amazing weekend. I saw the PUA's, did some food shopping and had a few thoughts here and there. Like why i ran for 3-4 miles, then smoked when i went out. Bizarre.

My realisation for the day is that i haven't been LJBF'ed in so long! When i started out as a PUA, i got it all the time. But i guess as our journey goes on, we iron out the kinks in our vestments and improve our technique.

Ooh, need to iron a t-shirt to wear for work tomorrow

See ya peeps x